Dear Amy: About five years ago, I found out through DNA testing that my third child (age 31), is not my biological son.
You should not avoid discussing family ancestry with your son. He is a member of the family and — DNA aside — your family ancestry is also his.
You should set a ticking clock and let his mother know that if she doesn’t disclose the truth to your son by a reasonable deadline, you will. Yes, definitely offer to join her in a discussion.While at a get-together with old friends of mine, one of them waited until RJ went to the bathroom to ask me about my ex-husband and his well-being.Unfortunately, RJ hasn’t always extended the same “kindness” to me.
What’s your opinion on the better approach? When in company, should we avoid speaking of our past in front of our current partner, or yap on and let them deal?If the choices are kindness and consideration versus “yapping” and dealing, I’m voting for what’s behind Door Number One.
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