Plus: She uses my grandsons to punish me.
Scruples may have less to do with this than budget restrictions or Adam’s young age may have. By all means, mention this to Danny but, after that, refrain from meddling. Your wedding was yours; this one is Danny’s and his fiancee’s.Recently, my oldest and dearest friend talked about renting a house in Puerto Rico for her family and mine.She recently informed me that she went ahead and booked the trip with her sister-in-law, her nephews and her parents without saying a word to me about it.
I was extremely hurt, and when I told her so, her answer was, “Well, I didn’t make the arrangements; my sister-in-law did. There will be small children, and I know you don’t want to do that.” DEAR EXCLUDED: If this is the first time something like this has happened, let it go. If it continues to happen, and I doubt it will, re-evaluate the friendship then.My son lives with his fiancee. His marriage, which produced my oldest grandson, has finally ended.
He has two boys with the fiancee. She and I have never seen eye-to-eye. When my son and I argue, she prevents me from seeing my grandsons. It makes it very difficult for me to bond with them, for fear she will keep them away forever.ON EGGSHELLS IN WASHINGTONIf you and your son have a functional relationship , take this up with him, and be frank about it. His fiancee should not use the children to punish you.
However, if your son won’t put a stop to what she’s doing, then it makes sense to protect your emotions — and to not feel guilty about doing it. If that means guarding them where your son’s children are concerned, that would be the healthier course of action.
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