Here are some tips for giving good advice, including: 👂 You don't have to fix the problem 👂 Listening goes a long way 👂 Body language matters 👂 Know when the questions are more than you can handle
go-to experts for advice for decades. She listened to me when we were kids in Maryland. Now in her 40s, she's a high school guidance counselor — so she's still advising young people.
"If you look like you're tense or you're distracted, the person might not open up to you as much as you would want them to," she says.Giving advice isn't the same as giving someone an order. That's somethinglearned on the job. He's the executive director and chaplain for the Islamic Center at New York University, which means counseling and advising are big parts of his job.
"A lot of it is to unload things that they have going on inside," Latif says."And you creating a space where they can self express freely.". A friend's priorities might not match your own, but that doesn't mean they're wrong. Don't assume their choices are any kind of statement about your own values and decisions.
Latif also says he knows when to refer out. He has mental health professionals on staff who can help people with problems outside of his expertise.
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