Advice from Amy Dickinson.
My husband of 45 years recently came to me with a proposal. He wants to deepen a friendship with a single woman 20 years younger.Their conversations are lively and interesting, and he finds that he wants to be around her more often.
In addition to highlighting this other woman’s great qualities, he is by implication drawing a contrast to you .this – your insecurity and lack of trust is driving him to this other relationship.But the way to engage in a friendship with someone designed to threaten your partner is to bring the new friend around and offer to share said friend with you, at least to the extent where it is obvious that this friendship will not threaten your marriage.
You and your husband could benefit from some professional counseling, which would help each of you to describe what about this particular episode is so important, from your individual and opposing perspectives.I grew up in a house with a lot of arguing and fighting involving my sister, brother, and parents. I dreaded dinnertime. I couldn’t wait to get out on my own, but still hated getting together.
What I need help with is that I can longer stand to be at these gatherings with my brother and sister.I made up an excuse to get out of a recent gathering at my brother’s house, and my brother gave me a guilt trip anyway, saying that I don’t want to be with family.– Frustrated and Sad: The youngest sibling in any family tends to witness a lot. This can lead to a tendency toward peace-making, people-pleasing, or – in your case – a lot of anxiety.
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